Can My Ex Really Just Not Handle A Long Distance Rel. But Is Keeping In Touch W/me B/c For The Future?
If a man loves you..why cant they handle a long distance relationship? My ex was 7 years older and I moved away to college. We stayed together for 6 months but then he said the long distance relatiionship was too hard..he wanted me to go meet new people and have fun. He couldn’t let go of me though and kept on calling right after he broke up with me. to this day he still tells me he loves me. I am so confused on how he feels? why did he break up with me if he loves me so much? can some men really just not handle long distance relationships? do you think he is keeping such close contact with me because he sees hope for the future when i am older and out of college? my age was also always a big issue for him..his bro gave him **** b/c i was so much younger. any ideas on what the love of my life is thinking? i love him so much but scared to show emotions because dont want to act needy. wha
Hi, first excuse my bad english, but i will try to explain,well i had the same situation before with my gf,i told her to go and to enjoy her life, specially that we had long distance also, and i was crazy and inlove with her, BUT in the end, its a short life, and every one must enjoy it as much as he or she can, so i will give u one advice and i hope u do it, first, stop calling him, becuase when the woman keeps calling or asking about the man, automatically he will feel safe and nice and he will try to keep this feeling simply becuase there is someone is taking care of him and keep on asking about him,so when u stop calling him, IF he REALLY love u and he want to be with u,he will do the impossible for that, but if u could tell him that u took ur discion and u willl do as he want , and that u will go and meet new guys and have fun, then belive me , he will feel that he digged his own grave by his own hands, so do what iam telling u and trust me, in the both ways u will be ok, if he will come back to u , then u will be ok, and if not , u will be really having fun and meeting new ppl which is the best medicine to make u forget him and start a new relation, ur age??u r not old yet,, u have plenty plenty years to live and to enjoy each second of it, i wish u the best, and if u feel more like to talk about it, add me in ur messenger maximuuuuus@yahoo.com
i will not say goodluck cuz i dont belive in luck, all u need is a DISICION. dont think more than 3 second… u will be waisting ur precious time
Regards
It sounds like he loves you. That’s why he wants to be near you. But he can’t be near you so he doesn’t want to love you because it causes him pain. Long distance relationships are not long term relationships.
In order to have a satisfying relationship you need to meet on all three levels, emotional, mental, and physical. You are not meeting at least one of those and so it is causing him emotional turmoil. I know, I’ve been there.
Best thing you can do is break up with him or move closer to him if you really want to be with him.
long distance relationships are hard on every one . see if you can work it out.
nope they dont work at all….u never know what if he is cheatin on you….u dont know ….my suggestion is stop it find yourself a REAL person
There are two things that have possibly happened. He may have met someone else but does not feel the same way about that person as he feels about you so he is leaving the door open for you. He may have thought it was best to break it off with you before persuing another relationship. It is unrealistic that a man will wait and not find another woman for self gratification.
The other would be that he knows you might come back to town on occasion and he just wants to hook up when you are in town. Men will say anything to keep a woman hanging if he thinks he can be intimate with her again.
He wants to explore others to keep himself pleased while u are away
Men are generally insecure!!!!!!!
Ok sweety, he wants you to see other ppl , that means he wants you out of his life in a nice way…so just move on
OK hint…. don’t call him for a while and see his reaction… just to make sure of his feelings