How Successful Are Long Distance Relationships?
I just met a girl 2 weeks ago and we both like eachother but i am going away to college in 5 weeks. its 17 hours away and im not sure if a relationship would work because of this. i would beable to come home once a month if we did start a relationship. Is that enough? I just was wondering if anyone thinks it could work out.
They can work, but only with a certain type of person. Someone who is really focused on their studies, who does not mind not having dates, indeed who is relieved of the necessity of being “sociable” by having a long-distance relationship. You can then have a great treat of getting together when time allows, and over holidays. Keep the relationship alive with phone calls and emails, and DON’T play games with jealousy. And don’t use the phone calls and emails to whine about how much you miss one another; that only makes it worse.
Make it clear to one another that this is an experiment. Neither one is looking for someone else, but neither one is guaranteeing to avoid all contact with others. After all, being together for seven weeks before school is not the same as being engaged or married. Unless you are crazy enough to make it so, which I do not advise.
Yes, it can work. The question as to whether or not it will work has to be answered by the two of you.
Both partners have to be 100 percent committed to making the relationship work. Relationships in general are very hard work…. but a long distance one is REALLY hard sometimes. Communication is key….. even more key than seeing one another in person. I have been in a long distance relationship and I had to give up at least 1-3 hours every evening to talk on the phone to him, but it would sometimes be 4 or 5 months before we saw each other in person. Just talk to one another and see how committed you both are at this point.
It won’t work out if you haven’t dated her already. If you date her for a month or so and continue the relationship after you leave it may work, but probably won’t last long.
I mean, if its love, it will work out, but how can you really tell after 5 weeks? I think its worth a shot though as long as she knows what she’s getting into and that you’re leaving soon.
Long distance relationships? Yes they can work out. It’s a good thing that you’ll be home at least once a month. But when you’re away, COMMUNICATION is the key. You’ll need to talk everday. Either on the phone, texting, email, whatever you choose. Just make sure you talk as often as you can.
Good Luck!
I think it can work out. talk to her about it and also mention that military couples stay together and they dont get to see eachother for years on end sometimes and theyre fine. Really though, and I hate to say this it depends on their personality and how strongly they believe it can work. i think if you see her you will be fine though.
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by the way, at my school the “date doctor” came to my school (the guy that the movie hitch was based on) he had good advice on long distance relationships. you can even email himhttp://www.datingdoctor.com/longdistance…
I believe anything is possible. You never know what will happen unless you try it and find out… I know a couple that dated for a year traveling back and forth. It does get hard not to have the other close but they recently moved closer. They are still going strong. Being online or dating long distance will allow you time to learn more about that person.
From personal experience it doesn’t work out, at first you may try hard to see each other but it gets harder and harder as you go on living without the other so I suggest you break it off but still remain friends and hopefully you can get back with her later
Itt only works if the girl can see you.Trust me im a girl and all of the gurls in my school cant date someone that they barley get to see.Whats the point in dating someone if u never get to see them.But hey nothings wrong with giving it a try.Try things out and see how thigs work.
Good luckk (:
pretty much impossible. both r surrounded by all kinds of interesting people while only communicating with the so called significant other by modern technology. if there is something special about ure long distance friend keep them on the back burner til u can get closer. literally!!
You will always be thinking what are they doing, are they lying to me can I trust them,long distant relationships are good only when it has been a super long relationship and you can completely trust that person
being that i just ended one and it was not successful at all i will not be having one again.
but i wish you luck with whatever you choose to do
Depends on the love.
I’ve seen some that are more successful than when the two are in proximity.
Berry, berry successful. Lets pray!
It will depend on both of u.If u 2 have the same feelings , its worth a try.Gud luck
Not very. You aren’t close to her to know if she ais cheating on you. So my advice is not to have them unless you really love her.
well britain and usa do it pretty well, but 99% its pretty much a disaster.
Only in time will you know. Good luck.
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if you two really love each other than it’ll work out!
dont do it. it’ll end up in disaster and waste your time.