Long Distance Relationship: Im In High School, He Is In College. Should I Let Him Move On?
ive been best friends with this guy for 5 years and he just recently admitted that he loves me and i love him too, but im a junior in high school and he is in his freshman year at college 7 hours away (we met online). he says im the only girl for him, but i feel im just holding him back from meeting other girls at his college because there are 20,000 kids and i know he could easily find a girl that is the same age, not 7 hours away, and not in high school. i wont even be able to really spend time with him for another 1 and a half years until i graduate. i dont know if i should just let him move on because i kind of feel like he has so many opportunities that im holding him back from, not just with relationships but with life too. im so in love with him but i really just want him to be happy and want the best for him, and i dont know if im holding him back from dating and a relationship that isnt composed of online chat and phone conversation. help? opinions? 
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Move on. Get a life…
to be honest let him go it maybe the best thing you could possibley do right now! Dont let anyone or anything hold you back from your years in high school! I made that mistake and I feel horrible about it because I never went to prom or any school dances because of my older boyfriend! It was the worst desicion ever! If I could Id go back and do it all over again! Guys in college all end up partying getting drunk and who knows maybe even have sex! Just be friends and see where that gets you!
I know long distance relationships are not easy. My wife is Japanese and I live in Canada. Until I finish school in 2 years from now, we will have our ups and downs.
So what I read from your question, your heart is in the right place. At the same time, you are still young and have your whole life in front of you.
I don’t know what would be the best answer to give. Maybe you guys have a shot of having something good if you really do love each other. But my question is have you guys ever met and spend time together? Because if it’s only been a online relationship, you might find it different than spending time with someone on a daily basis.
I just hope you don’t get hurt. And remember, you still have your whole life ahead of you. Which means, you still have lot of things to learn and go through in life, places to visit, people to meet and live some experiences that will forge your destiny and let you find your place in this world.
Hope all works out for the best.
I’ve seen it work b4, but it was like pulling teeth. Pictures dont hug back, telephone calls get old and you cant go to the movies with them when something good comes out. Let him experience the college life and let him decide what he wants to do while you focus on school and preparing yourself 4 the “fork in the road” experience your getting ready to encounter! good luck
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