Long Distance Relationships In College?
I have been dating my girlfriend for nearly two years. In August, we are going to college (I’m headed off for California and she is staying on the east coast).
I am hesitant to stay together and I know she wants to stay together. I would like to be with her, but don’t think it will work.
So all you west coast guys… are you meeting/did you meet (hot) girls in college? Did you stay with a high school girlfriend (did it work)? Any success with open relationships?
What should I do??
If you WANT to ogo to ocollege and have fun and experience new people, please let her know before instead of breaking her heart.
My best friend and her boyfriend from all of highschool (well 3 yrs) had a serious talk abouot college. They decided it was best to take a break and see what happened. It was very dificult for the both of them but it was the mature and responsible thing to do. They both ended up meeting new peopole and having a lot of fun. They never got back together but at least they broke up on good terms and can still talk once in a while knowing that beither of them did anything to hurt one another behind their backs.
btw they were in love and were eachothers firsts. they had a very special relationship. but it all worked out for the best.
but incase you decide to sty together here is some motivation for you:
My husband and I got married and joined the army. We spent the first 8 months apart during training. Then we graduated from everything and were living together again. 4 months later we were both deployed to different places and have to spend another year apart. We still love eachother and wih a lot of love and will power to back us up, we are getting through it faithfully.
Long distance relationships can work but they take a lot of effort and dedication from both of the people involved.
From your question its like you are already looking forward to being single again with the talk of hot girls in college, and you also mentioned that you was hesitant, etc.
Finish it now and do her a favour.
My suggestion would be to end it anyone i have known it doesnt work out for them and they end up cheating on their gf/bf
if you end it then there will be no guilt in liking a new person and you dont have to worry about if your going to cheat or not
if you guys are meant to be together it will happen you guys will end up to gether if not then the chpice of letting go waas smart
If someone here told you their relationship didnt work out, does that mean youre going to break up with your gf? That seems.. stupid. It depends on the relationship, how much the parties love each other. Atleast give the long distance relationship a chance, if it doesnt work out then reconsider the whole thing but just dont rule it out now, Long distance relationships do work, it just depends on whether both parties are willing to fight for it.
Remember, where there’s a will, there’s a way
and the good things in life never come easy.
long distance relationships do work if you try. just commit to her, and don’t do anything she wouldnt want you to do! give her a reason she can trust you.
im in a semi-long distance relationsip, we like eachother but were not dating. we see eachother alot. i think it will work
hm…. you dont think it will work…
why? because your a pig and cant stay faithful seeing hot slutty drunk bitches run around at your college.
dude your disguisting.
i hate guys for this reason.
never ever faithful..
EVER
even when your girl tries her best to make you happy and satisfied,
its never good enough for you pigs is it?
no harm in trying it out. if you make it til xmas, then it works, if it doesnt, then it doesnt work.
you no what will work is you should call her every day and on weekends you should drive back up to see her she will be so clade to see you im serious it will work no dought i promise you that
long distance relationships are hard. your best bet is to end it and agree to stay friends. You will both meet new people in college so you won’t want to be tied down.
My kitten just puked on the carpet.
LTR’s never work, you will both meet other people, 99% of the time
Long Distance relationships works only if you two can make a promise to stay faithful with each other. But if you two can’t see that working out, then you’ll have to break up. But for 2 years, i would think you two would have a strong faith and a strong bond with each other no matter how far you two are apart.