http://www.francesco-totti.com/move-closer-to-my-long-distance-girlfriend Francesco Totti | Soccer | FootBall | Sport | AS Roma | Milan | Club Sun, 19 Jun 2011 05:47:34 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.3 http://www.francesco-totti.com/move-closer-to-my-long-distance-girlfriend/comment-page-1#comment-8680 General D. Ypsilanti Tue, 09 Feb 2010 02:15:55 +0000 http://francesco-totti.com/move-closer-to-my-long-distance-girlfriend#comment-8680 According to an article I read in Time magazine recently, over 75% of marriages between people under 25 end in divorce. Many times emotions rule rather than the brain. Ben Franklin said to take a sheet of paper, draw a line down the center and then make a list of pros and cons. Pros on the left side balanced by the cons on the right. True, not all factors carry the same weight. I assume that you chose a career and university based on your interests and prospects. A long distance relationship of a year duration is not very long and it certainly does not guarantee that you can live together. Holding on to that relationship prevents you from exploring other social lessons. It may work out all right but if it doesn't, you will blame her for getting you to change colleges and resentment will build. Learn to communicate openly and truthfully - right now. That is a most important skill that needs to be adopted. According to an article I read in Time magazine recently, over 75% of marriages between
people under 25 end in divorce. Many times emotions rule rather than the brain.
Ben Franklin said to take a sheet of paper, draw a line down the center and
then make a list of pros and cons. Pros on the left side balanced by the cons
on the right. True, not all factors carry the same weight.
I assume that you chose a career and university based on your interests and prospects.
A long distance relationship of a year duration is not very long and it certainly
does not guarantee that you can live together. Holding on to that relationship
prevents you from exploring other social lessons. It may work out all right
but if it doesn’t, you will blame her for getting you to change colleges
and resentment will build.
Learn to communicate openly and truthfully – right now. That is a most important
skill that needs to be adopted.

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