My Long Distance Bf Is Addicted To Wow… Please Help?
we are only long distance for the summer cuz we are in college. he used to play wow maybe like once a month if he really had nothing to do, but now that we are apart and he is home he plays all the time. i dont mind that he plays, its just that he never takes a time out to talk to me. he will literally chose to play wow over talking to me. and we have a 5 hour time difference so its hard to find time to talk anyway. i dont want to make him stop cuz thats mean. and i would be ok with him playing while on the phone if he could actually hold a conversation. but now i would just rather he call me after, cuz when im ignored on the phone for wow, well it just doesnt feel good
im not mad, just sad. i dont know what to do. we have talked about it a lot, but idk. i just feel like im 2nd to wow. i just dont know how to handle it.
I didn’t think guys who played “World of Warcraft” had girlfriends. I don’t know what to tell you I can’t make long distance relations work…
wow…thats really bad…ive seen people totally change by playing WoW. ok heres what i think you should do.
1. when you do have a chance to talk to him. tell him its important.
2. tell him how you feel about him playing WoW.
3. your part of this relationship. take control.
hopefully this helps.
I am sorry but what is wow?
But you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel about it.. If he continues to choose the “wow” over you..then you should choose to be single over being with him..
It is hard enough being in a long distance relationship (trust me) without having to worry about little stuff like that…
if he’s playing World of Warcraft…(lol cant believe some ppl don’t know what WoW is haha) and he is talking to you and not listening just hang up. Tell him to call you when he is done. Dont be mean about it just tell him that he’s distracted and you’ll be expecting his call later. He should be making time for you.
Heh. My boyfriend used to do this with me on the phone when he picked up a new video game to play.
When on he phone just ask for half an hour of his time. It’s not like you’d be asking a lot of him, and he can go right back to it later.
Your right, your boyfriend should put you as #1, no doubts. Have another talk with him, tell him you need more. You can’t make it work by yourself, no matter how hard you try.
If he fails to do so, then you have no other choice, break up.
World of Warcraft.
you will always be 2nd to wow it’s like crack
you start small them you can’t stop.
get him to wow anonymous fast
wow. thats sad.
what exactly is “wow”? Please specify.
yeah wow is world of warcraft, an mmorpg (and an epic one at that).
what is wow
lol, u cant tell a guy that he can watch a game, play a game or do ANYTHING if u want him to hold a conversation with u…
they simply CANNOT do two things at once. females have a super power, we can multi task and guys cant.
idk what wow is but maybe he needs to miss u. i’m not saying to ignore him but if he’s found something to occupy his time now that ur not nearby, u should do the same. find something that u can enjoy (not necessarily something like wow) that way u dont become overwhelmed with sadness over his new found thing.
2nd tip: schedule a time to talk. maybe when he’s driving to work or driving back home, right before bed, anytime when u absolutely know for sure he WONT be playing wow. and get him to agree to that time to. make sure he knows its ‘relationship time’. if he’s in college, he’s a big boy. he should know that ur relationship cant survive without communication and if he doesn’t, tip #3: tell him
here…be glad you BF isn’t this guy…http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWBfLOZ2C…
ok now on to helping.
did you tell him everything you just told us? maybe he should know that he’s putting that stupid game before YOU. which is stupid.
if you already did that, you could always get a wow account and play with him!! haha….jk….
i would tell him how it makes you feel unimportant. if he doesn’t understand then stop calling him and wait for him to call you. if he really wants to talk to you, he’ll move time in his “schedule” for you.