Shes Not Single (long Distance Relationship), I Like Her, Advice?
We are both in our first year of college, in different programs. We’re both 18, We’ve been hanging out alot lately, drinking and going to parties with friends and such.
Around the first/second week hanging out with her she added me on facebook and it says shes got a bf. The strange thing is, she’s never mentioned she had a BF or even mentioned him at all, and we’ve been hanging out for almost 3 months now.. Although once in a while it says stuff like “<3 Miss him" or somthing to do with him, on her facebook status, like once a month.
I know that long distance relationships dont work/wont work through the 3 years of college.. I want to be more then friends. She seems like shes really enjoying my company, i think she likes me, just the signals shes giving me, are not signs that taken girls give. We've even gone on a few dates just me and her, is that really normal thing a taken girl should be doing? We talk on msn like EVERYDAY, should i try to flirt with her over msn?
What should i do around her to let her know that I like her more then a friend? Any advice or views please tell me.
well. i think it would be a good idea to make sure if she has a bf or not.
jumping to conclusions isnt the best plan.
and based off you guys hanging out and talking a lot, it could mean 2 things:
a. want to be more than friends
b. want to be JUST friends for hanging out.
flirting with her would be a good idea to let her know youre interested.
but overdoing it is a definite NO NO and can lead to like a desperate look.
so casually ask her out on a date. like a REAL date.
and see where it goes from there.
good luck.
If she’s taken then back off. If I was a guy, I wouldn’t want to be the one who stole another guys girl. Not only that, but if she’s giving you mixed signals then you need to stay away from her. You shouldn’t be around her as much as you are. She’ll wonder why you’re not talking to her or hanging out with her so tell her the truth. You can say “Well I saw on your facebook profile that you have a boyfriend and I like you but I didn’t want to get in the way, or be the reason you broke up with him.”