Boyfriend…sex…basketball..…

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now and I love him dearly. Well I tell every one that I love them but its deeper than that I feel for others. Anyway, he is younger than me by 10 months (such a coincidence) and he has had sex before. I am 17 turning 18 and I am still a virgin. He wants to have sex but I don’t feel like I am ready. Here is the catch 22, I want to but I was raped when I was younger so every time we reach the undressing stage I start having flashbacks and can’t go on any more.
2) We have been dating so long I guess I am starting to feel like it is time for a change of scenery and test the waters. I want to be with him but with me going off to college and him still being a sophomore in high school, the long distance thing just wont work for me.
3) All I really want to do is play basketball but I don’t know how to be all about ball and maintain a relationship and 4.00 GPA. Something has got to give.
What do I do??? My sanity is my happiness. Please help!

Long Distance Relationship Songs?

Well my boyfriend left for college about a month ago. And i still have two years of high school left. We have been together for 10 months and i can’t live without him here. I’m trying to look up cute long distance songs like the slow song. Ones like hey their delilah and other slow alternative songs. any help?!

How Can I Deal With A Long Distance Relationship?

me and my girlfriend have been “together” for 10 months now and we live an hr away from each other,and i want to know when its going to get easier and when i go off to college in sep of “09″ 8 hrs away how can our relationship get any better if its hard with just an hr?

Long Distance Relationship Surivival Tips Needed :p?

I am leaving for Kentucky tomorrow because I am going to college there, but I am leaving my boyfriend here. I have been dating him for 10 months and I love him A LOT. I can feel that he is the one and I don’t want to lose him. We will do long distance and I know its gonna b tough but I really want it to work. Any tips on how to survive long distance relationships?

Jealous Of My Long Distance Boyfriend Spending Time With Our Friend?

Here’s the story.
Me and boyfriend when we first met became good friends. Another guy transfered to our college. We all became good friends. Me and boyfriend start going out. Spend the whole next year all together having a good time. A year later. They both transfer to another college (the same college) Now I’m long distance with my boyfriend, but they get to see each other whenever they want. Do fun things that I love doing but never get enough time to do with my boyfriend because of our limited time together.
So I’m basically super jealous. It’s been 10 months since they moved. I love my other guy friend but I’m super jealous when I call and they’re hanging out.
What should I do? Am I wrong for feeling this way?
It’s basically the feeling of being left behind. Not only did one person move away, but two. My boyfriend and my best guy friend. I guess I just miss them both.

I’m Gonna Start A Long Distance Relationship In January?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months now, but we were really close friends/had strong feelings for each other for about a year before that. We’re both 18 and I’m going to Community College on a scholarship. He doesn’t have a scholarship or the money to go to school. His father joined the military and his family will be moving with him on base in 10 months, but he doesn’t want to go with them.
He has looked into a private University that will pay for four years of college so long as he joins the army on the third year. He will graduate as an officer. He wants to marry me as soon as he does, and he wants me to move on base with him. He says that Officers don’t usually go into war, which is what scares me the most about him joining.
Now, this all sounds amazing, and I love him so much that I’d marry him in a heartbeat. I feel like we’ve been dating for much longer then we have been, but the only problem is that his school is at least one hour away, and we’d only be able to see each other once a week or at least every two weeks. That’s still not too awful, but I was in a long Distance relationship before with a guy who wanted to marry me (he was much older then me, I was younger and really naive) and it failed miserably just three months after we started it (we had been together for almost two years before he moved).
So it seems like im just being young and stupid again. Do we really have a chance? Do you think a guy would wait 4 years to marry a woman? He says he wants to take care of me and that’s why he’s going to do it.
I love him, and I’m afraid of all this change. I really want us to work out. Any suggestions on how to keep a long distance relationship alive??

I’m Gonna Start A Long Distance Relationship In January?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months now, but we were really close friends/had strong feelings for each other for about a year before that. We’re both 18 and I’m going to Community College on a scholarship. He doesn’t have a scholarship or the money to go to school. His father joined the military and his family will be moving with him on base in 10 months, but he doesn’t want to go with them.
He has looked into a private University that will pay for four years of college so long as he joins the army on the third year. He will graduate as an officer. He wants to marry me as soon as he does, and he wants me to move on base with him. He says that Officers don’t usually go into war, which is what scares me the most about him joining.
Now, this all sounds amazing, and I love him so much that I’d marry him in a heartbeat. I feel like we’ve been dating for much longer then we have been, but the only problem is that his school is at least one hour away, and we’d only be able to see each other once a week or at least every two weeks. That’s still not too awful, but I was in a long Distance relationship before with a guy who wanted to marry me (he was much older then me, I was younger and really naive) and it failed miserably just three months after we started it (we had been together for almost two years before he moved).
So it seems like im just being young and stupid again. Do we really have a chance? Do you think a guy would wait 4 years to marry a woman? He says he wants to take care of me and that’s why he’s going to do it.
I love him, and I’m afraid of all this change. I really want us to work out. Any suggestions on how to keep a long distance relationship alive??