I Like Her But She’s In A Long Distance Relationship, Advice?
We are both in our first year of college, in different programs. We’re both 18, We’ve been hanging out alot lately, drinking and going to parties with friends and such. after the first/second week hanging out with her she added me on facebook and it says shes got a bf. before we started hanging out, her facebook status says stuff like “i miss my boyfriend” and stuff. It hasnt since. The strange thing is, she’s never mentioned, neither have her friends that she has a BF.
I know that long distance relationships dont work/wont work through the 3 years of college.. I feel bad and i don’t want to put her in a situation she has to deal with daily temptations.. I can tell shes really into me. If i make a move, and shes not interested in that way, theres a chance ill lose this friendship.
Should I just mask my feelings and remain friends until this relationship dissolves? Any advice or people that have had the same kind of problem?
Long Distance Relationship Due To Peace Corp?
Hey everyone,
My bf of two years is leaving for the peace corps this July and I’m curious if anyone has gone through a long distance such as this and how it turned out. He will be gone for 2 years and 3 months (hopefully I’ll see him 1-2 times during this time). We are very much in love and live together right now, but with an ocean between us, and lack of regular communication due to his third-world living standards, will that be enough to survive the time and distance? I’m 21 and have another year left of college, and he’s 22 and just graduated (if that makes a difference).
I’m looking for serious answers/advice and other people’s experiences in this area. Thank you all in advance.
Long Distance Problem?
my family is living n another country..my bf don`t want us to get separated again because of long distance so he got me preg! [it was confirmed that i was preg when we got separated again by distance]..we both want this baby and we are so happy to have this!
now the problem is,my parents don`t want me to go back to the country where my bf is if were not still married..but my bf promised to his parents that we will get married after his college..and 2-3 years more college! [i think my bf`s parents don`t want us to get married unless my bf has not finished school yet]..now,my bf wants me to go back home but my parents dont agree with it! im confused so any advice what to do? we cant like even see eachother unless we are married! eventhough he`s the father..
Shes Not Single (long Distance Relationship), I Like Her, Advice?
We are both in our first year of college, in different programs. We’re both 18, We’ve been hanging out alot lately, drinking and going to parties with friends and such.
Around the first/second week hanging out with her she added me on facebook and it says shes got a bf. The strange thing is, she’s never mentioned she had a BF or even mentioned him at all, and we’ve been hanging out for almost 3 months now.. Although once in a while it says stuff like “<3 Miss him" or somthing to do with him, on her facebook status, like once a month.
I know that long distance relationships dont work/wont work through the 3 years of college.. I want to be more then friends. She seems like shes really enjoying my company, i think she likes me, just the signals shes giving me, are not signs that taken girls give. We've even gone on a few dates just me and her, is that really normal thing a taken girl should be doing? We talk on msn like EVERYDAY, should i try to flirt with her over msn?
What should i do around her to let her know that I like her more then a friend? Any advice or views please tell me.
Need Encouragement With Long Distance Relationship. India?
My bf is in another country(India) and we have known each other for almost a year and we love each other very much but I can’t find a joint sponsor for his k1 visa, so I have to go to college to get a higher paying job, so I can fully sponsor him and it will take so long. It is nearly impossible for Indians to get any kind of visa so its all up to me.
I need encouragement. Only kind answers please, I’m highly sensitive.
My Boyfriend’s Phobia Of Long-distance Relationships?
My bf is a jr in high school and I am a sr. We have now been dating for a month and a half, and I care about him a lot… I even think that I could love him someday. Here’s the problem: I’m going off to college this fall 7 hours away from my bf. My bf has never successfully held a long distance relationship (neither have I) or a relationship longer than ours. When I bring up my concerns about next year he changes the subject. He says he’s afraid to have deep feelings for me because I’m leaving, even though he likes me a lot. I think we both went into this knowing we might break up after graduation, but I’m afraid I’m already becoming attached to him. Are we capable of making it, even though in a year and a half he’s going to the air force academy? Am I worrying too much too soon? If he somehow falls in love with me, for the first time, will he be willing to make it work long-distance? Or should I just accept that this will soon end and have fun for the rest of the school year?
Is It Easier Or Harder To Get A Long-term Boyfriend If You’re In A Sorority In College?
I’m a 1st year in college and I was thinking about joining a sorority. Right now what I want is long-term boyfriend who I can trust throughout college that I can spend a lot of time with, etc.
I have gone to a few fraternity parties that were open parties where anyone can go, and that’s where I met my current guy I am dating. He is a 4th year, and we have been dating over one month. I told him no sex and he respects my decision. He treats me really well and we get a long well and always have fun together. My concerns though are that he is really busy all the time because he is involved with so many clubs on campus so it’s hard for him to make time to see me but he does make time. Other concern is he is graduating in a few months, so next year he won’t be at the school with me and I would not want a long-distance relationship. I also feel like we are already getting bored of each other.
I think he likes the fact that I am not in a sorority and I seem innocent and he knows I wouldn’t cheat on him. But since he’s leaving I feel I am gonna have to start looking for someone else. I want someone younger that’s in a lower grade.
I’m wondering if I should do spring rush for a sorority but I’ve heard that guys have less respect for sorority girls and would not want a long-term relationship with one. Mainly sorority girls associate with frat guys (and I’ve found the frat guys at my school to be extreme players) so frat guys wouldn’t want a relationship would they? But I feel the opportunity to meet new people would be better, and I know of a couple girls in sororities who have boyfriends, but I don’t know what to do. Join a sorority or not? Would this decrease or increase my chances of having a long-term bf?
Is It Easier Or Harder To Get A Long-term Boyfriend If You’re In A Sorority In College?
I’m a 1st year in college and I was thinking about joining a sorority. Right now what I want is long-term boyfriend who I can trust throughout college that I can spend a lot of time with, etc.
I have gone to a few fraternity parties that were open parties where anyone can go, and that’s where I met my current guy I am dating. He is a 4th year, and we have been dating over one month. I told him no sex and he respects my decision. He treats me really well and we get a long well and always have fun together. My concerns though are that he is really busy all the time because he is involved with so many clubs on campus so it’s hard for him to make time to see me but he does make time. Other concern is he is graduating in a few months, so next year he won’t be at the school with me and I would not want a long-distance relationship. I also feel like we are already getting bored of each other.
I think he likes the fact that I am not in a sorority and I seem innocent and he knows I wouldn’t cheat on him. But since he’s leaving I feel I am gonna have to start looking for someone else. I want someone younger that’s in a lower grade.
I’m wondering if I should do spring rush for a sorority but I’ve heard that guys have less respect for sorority girls and would not want a long-term relationship with one. Mainly sorority girls associate with frat guys (and I’ve found the frat guys at my school to be extreme players) so frat guys wouldn’t want a relationship would they? But I feel the opportunity to meet new people would be better, and I know of a couple girls in sororities who have boyfriends, but I don’t know what to do. Join a sorority or not? Would this decrease or increase my chances of having a long-term bf?
Is It Easier Or Harder To Get A Long-term Boyfriend If You’re In A Sorority In College?
I’m a 1st year in college and I was thinking about joining a sorority. Right now what I want is long-term boyfriend who I can trust throughout college that I can spend a lot of time with, etc.
I have gone to a few fraternity parties that were open parties where anyone can go, and that’s where I met my current guy I am dating. He is a 4th year, and we have been dating over one month. I told him no sex and he respects my decision. He treats me really well and we get a long well and always have fun together. My concerns though are that he is really busy all the time because he is involved with so many clubs on campus so it’s hard for him to make time to see me but he does make time. Other concern is he is graduating in a few months, so next year he won’t be at the school with me and I would not want a long-distance relationship. I also feel like we are already getting bored of each other.
I think he likes the fact that I am not in a sorority and I seem innocent and he knows I wouldn’t cheat on him. But since he’s leaving I feel I am gonna have to start looking for someone else. I want someone younger that’s in a lower grade.
I’m wondering if I should do spring rush for a sorority but I’ve heard that guys have less respect for sorority girls and would not want a long-term relationship with one. Mainly sorority girls associate with frat guys (and I’ve found the frat guys at my school to be extreme players) so frat guys wouldn’t want a relationship would they? But I feel the opportunity to meet new people would be better, and I know of a couple girls in sororities who have boyfriends, but I don’t know what to do. Join a sorority or not? Would this decrease or increase my chances of having a long-term bf?
Is It Easier Or Harder To Get A Long-term Boyfriend If You’re In A Sorority In College?
I’m a 1st year in college and I was thinking about joining a sorority. Right now what I want is long-term boyfriend who I can trust throughout college that I can spend a lot of time with, etc.
I have gone to a few fraternity parties that were open parties where anyone can go, and that’s where I met my current guy I am dating. He is a 4th year, and we have been dating over one month. I told him no sex and he respects my decision. He treats me really well and we get a long well and always have fun together. My concerns though are that he is really busy all the time because he is involved with so many clubs on campus so it’s hard for him to make time to see me but he does make time. Other concern is he is graduating in a few months, so next year he won’t be at the school with me and I would not want a long-distance relationship. I also feel like we are already getting bored of each other.
I think he likes the fact that I am not in a sorority and I seem innocent and he knows I wouldn’t cheat on him. But since he’s leaving I feel I am gonna have to start looking for someone else. I want someone younger that’s in a lower grade.
I’m wondering if I should do spring rush for a sorority but I’ve heard that guys have less respect for sorority girls and would not want a long-term relationship with one. Mainly sorority girls associate with frat guys (and I’ve found the frat guys at my school to be extreme players) so frat guys wouldn’t want a relationship would they? But I feel the opportunity to meet new people would be better, and I know of a couple girls in sororities who have boyfriends, but I don’t know what to do. Join a sorority or not? Would this decrease or increase my chances of having a long-term bf?
