Is It Easier Or Harder To Get A Long-term Boyfriend If You’re In A Sorority In College?
I’m a 1st year in college and I was thinking about joining a sorority. Right now what I want is long-term boyfriend who I can trust throughout college that I can spend a lot of time with, etc.
I have gone to a few fraternity parties that were open parties where anyone can go, and that’s where I met my current guy I am dating. He is a 4th year, and we have been dating over one month. I told him no sex and he respects my decision. He treats me really well and we get a long well and always have fun together. My concerns though are that he is really busy all the time because he is involved with so many clubs on campus so it’s hard for him to make time to see me but he does make time. Other concern is he is graduating in a few months, so next year he won’t be at the school with me and I would not want a long-distance relationship. I also feel like we are already getting bored of each other.
I think he likes the fact that I am not in a sorority and I seem innocent and he knows I wouldn’t cheat on him. But since he’s leaving I feel I am gonna have to start looking for someone else. I want someone younger that’s in a lower grade.
I’m wondering if I should do spring rush for a sorority but I’ve heard that guys have less respect for sorority girls and would not want a long-term relationship with one. Mainly sorority girls associate with frat guys (and I’ve found the frat guys at my school to be extreme players) so frat guys wouldn’t want a relationship would they? But I feel the opportunity to meet new people would be better, and I know of a couple girls in sororities who have boyfriends, but I don’t know what to do. Join a sorority or not? Would this decrease or increase my chances of having a long-term bf?
Is It Easier Or Harder To Get A Long-term Boyfriend If You’re In A Sorority In College?
I’m a 1st year in college and I was thinking about joining a sorority. Right now what I want is long-term boyfriend who I can trust throughout college that I can spend a lot of time with, etc.
I have gone to a few fraternity parties that were open parties where anyone can go, and that’s where I met my current guy I am dating. He is a 4th year, and we have been dating over one month. I told him no sex and he respects my decision. He treats me really well and we get a long well and always have fun together. My concerns though are that he is really busy all the time because he is involved with so many clubs on campus so it’s hard for him to make time to see me but he does make time. Other concern is he is graduating in a few months, so next year he won’t be at the school with me and I would not want a long-distance relationship. I also feel like we are already getting bored of each other.
I think he likes the fact that I am not in a sorority and I seem innocent and he knows I wouldn’t cheat on him. But since he’s leaving I feel I am gonna have to start looking for someone else. I want someone younger that’s in a lower grade.
I’m wondering if I should do spring rush for a sorority but I’ve heard that guys have less respect for sorority girls and would not want a long-term relationship with one. Mainly sorority girls associate with frat guys (and I’ve found the frat guys at my school to be extreme players) so frat guys wouldn’t want a relationship would they? But I feel the opportunity to meet new people would be better, and I know of a couple girls in sororities who have boyfriends, but I don’t know what to do. Join a sorority or not? Would this decrease or increase my chances of having a long-term bf?
Long Distance Relationship Dilemma…please Help?
So my boyfriend and I are long distance because of school. He’s a senior, I’m a junior in college and we’re at universities 3 hours apart from each other. We’ve expressed how much in love we are and how we plan to marry each other one day. The latest bump in the road comes from the fact that he coaches a “semi-pro” football team that has practices and games every sunday. So here’s the deal, we planned on switching off weekends visiting each other. However, he already promised this guy, who doesn’t have a mode of transportation to get to the dome where they play, that he’d drive him. This guy had helped out my bf with rides last football season. So in a nutshell, we thought that the weekends would be 50/50, but it looks like I’m going to have to go see him every weekend. I did this last year, drove long distance to see a bf every weekend and I felt like an idiot once we broke up. I dont want him to feel he has to give up his team but I dont want to do all the work. What should I do?
Long Distance Relationship Question!!?
I am 18 and getting ready to go to college!! my bf is 21 has a career that requires him to stay in NC where I live! I am going to college in CA so we will have to deal with yet another long distance relationship!! I love him and don’t want to break up!! do any of yall have any good advice?!?! thanks in advance! ♥ Lizzie
My Bf Is Moving. Long Distance Relationship Or Break It Off??????
ok my boyfriend and i are happily in love! we’ve been together all through highschool and now hes going off to college in Georgia. And we both currently live in Cali. Anyways i know we’re in love but will we make it in a long distance relationship? Cus i know he is gonna want to have fun and party and i dont want him to feel like he cant cus of me but what if he cheats and lies????? should we just break up???
How Long Should You Be In A Relationship Before You Get Engaged/married?
I have been dating my bf for 2 years now. Things are going great, but we are not engaged yet. How long do people usually wait? I am finished with college and am teaching now, and he is in a Doctorate program in NY. Getting through the long distance is hard, and I understand he needs to focus on getting finished with school….but I feel like we should at least be engaged! Am I just being a crazy girl?!?
Well Should I Buy A Betsey Johnson Bag Or Flat Screen Tv For Christimas?
hmm… my bf is buying me either or the bj bag is only 98 dollars and well i really want it but i mentioned a tv and my bf thinks its a good idea. we need a new tv since the one we have is a big block that is gonna give out in a few months or so i think. so what do you all thing should i ask for the bag and save us a ton of money so unsure!!!
My Long Distance Bf Is Addicted To Wow… Please Help?
we are only long distance for the summer cuz we are in college. he used to play wow maybe like once a month if he really had nothing to do, but now that we are apart and he is home he plays all the time. i dont mind that he plays, its just that he never takes a time out to talk to me. he will literally chose to play wow over talking to me. and we have a 5 hour time difference so its hard to find time to talk anyway. i dont want to make him stop cuz thats mean. and i would be ok with him playing while on the phone if he could actually hold a conversation. but now i would just rather he call me after, cuz when im ignored on the phone for wow, well it just doesnt feel good
im not mad, just sad. i dont know what to do. we have talked about it a lot, but idk. i just feel like im 2nd to wow. i just dont know how to handle it.
Should I Stay Here And Go To College Or Go Away To University?
Someone just help me to go in the right direction. If I go away I lose my bf of two years and were in love, he wont do the long distance thing. And if i stay here and go to college, theres only a college here, than i could still end up losing him to another girl right? I dont know what to do. Which one is better education wise, im really scared to just go away and take a chance.
Boyfriend Cheating, Long Distance Relationship…help?
My bf and I have a long distance relationship. In 2 months, upon my college graduation, I am moving to his city to work and move in with him. 3 weeks ago, he met a woman, 28, gorgeous, successful and established. (I’m 22, he’s 24) She went out with him one night, and the next day told me he was interested in her. I told him, I’m moving there in 2 months, and I don’t think seeing her is good for us. He agreed and said he wouldn’t see her anymore.
Upon visiting him, I find that they kissed, spent the night together, and see each other every night. He has never cheated before. He tells me that he loves me but that he is just intrigued by her. I told him that he needed to choose and he became angry and annoyed when I cried over the situation.
Is this just nervousness about me moving in with him? Just a fling that a lot of guys experience before commitment? I want to put my foot down, but love him, have the condo in our names, and don’t want to give up.
What should I do?
