Should I End This Long Distance Relationship Before I Move Closer To Him?
First off, don’t judge me cuz some of the info is kinda personal.
I’ve been with this guy for almost 11 months, and for the first 8, everything was great (After I went to college things have been harder). And it’s a long distance relationship, but I planned on moving maybe like 900 miles west to a college closer to him. And if I do it’s gonna be in 3-4 weeks, when the semester ends.
But lately I just dunno about him. He’s been treating me as just some body instead of somebody, and I don’t want that at all. Like, he masterbates and stuff, and lately, as soon as he finishes he’s all like, “I’m going to bed. I’ll talk to u tomorrow. love you.”
Like today he was texting me and was like, “hey I need some help with my english paper tonight..can u help me?,” so I said yes. When I went to newspaper (I work for the university newspaper) I made sure I didn’t choose events that were tonight just so I could help him and talk to him. But when he got home he pretty much talked to me, got off, then went to bed. His plan is to wake up at 3 am (my 5 am) and do his homework. I don’t really get why he chooses to be awake when I’m sleeping and chooses to sleep when I’m awake.
The last time we talked he did the same thing. Like what the hell. I don’t talk to him for him to get off and leave. And it’s making me feel like that’s all he wants me for. I’m not gonna give someone that lame my virginity, right?
He just doesn’t seem like he used to be. I dumped him a month ago because I thought he changed from the sweet person he used to be, and I let him back into my life.
But honestly, he isn’t even really that sweet. When we first met he wrote so many poems…just because. He would always surprise me. Now he just writes poems if I dump him (I’ve dumped him once).
Deep down I know what I should do, but I don’t wanna make a wrong decision. At one point I really did love him, and it was because of everything he did. Now, I just find myself aggravated so much more often with him. He’s a douche really.
Any suggestions?
Thanks!
Move Closer To My Long Distance Girlfriend?
should i move back to my home town to be with my girlfriend? We met in our home town and moved for college. We’ve been in a long distance relationship for more than a year now. She’s 21 and I’m 22. I’m wondering if I should move home and go to a local University while applying for a transfer college cuz she moved back home due to financial issues. If i get in to the colleges i’m trying to get into i will move back. If i don’t get in, i am planning on going to a local university in my home town. (not the best school but still pretty decent) The issue here is my financial situation. I will be paying out of state at my home town for a semester or 2 till i get residency. Also moving that far can cause a lot of stress haha. I love her and i don’t know if she’d wait any longer. i know she says it and she should wait if she really loves me but i feel like WE deserve better. Should i make the leap and sacrifices? After all i am the man of the relationship haha
Moving Closer From Long Distance Relationship?
i’ve been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years now and ive decided to move closer to them for college. this is tearing me apart and its getting closer to the day i have to decide. we’re also about to get engaged….
1) would you rather go to a good school that you love and rent a room in someones house nearby, continue to do the long distance thing, (problem the school isnt in the best area in town)
2) or live with happily with your gf/bf and go to a school that would be your second choice and close by? it would be the most convienent.
3) or drive an hour and a half everyday to the school you love and live with your gf/bf at the same time? (problems: gas expenses and time consuming, money is an issue..)
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Getting Closer To Progressing To The Next Stage Was Important – Roma Captain Francesco Totti .
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