Long Distance Relationships: Italian Guy & American Girl?
I am totally in love with one of my families friend’s son’s who lives in Italy(he is Italian), we have known each other since I can remember and my parent’s have sent me to stay with his family every summer in Italy since I was 12, and when I go there all me and him do is hang out together(and hook up). He is the sweetest guy I have ever met and I love him, I have no clue what to do. He keeps saying I should just move to Italy and stay with him, but I don’t know if I should since I am in my first year of college, but we love each other so much I am really thinking about it.
Questions:
-Should I move to Italy and stay with him ?
-Do long distance relationships ever work ?
Other Details:
-I am 18, he is 19
-I see him every summer and sometimes during the holidays
-I talk to him all the time on the phone and computer
-I am Italian/German/French(My mother is from France, My Grandmother is from Italy, and my Dad is German/Italian from America)
Long Distance Relationships: Italian Guy & American Girl ?
I am totally in love with one of my families friend’s son’s who lives in Italy(he is Italian), we have known each other since I can remember and my parent’s have sent me to stay with his family every summer in Italy since I was 12, and when I go there all me and him do is hang out together(and hook up). He is the sweetest guy I have ever met and I love him, I have no clue what to do. He keeps saying I should just move to Italy and stay with him, but I don’t know if I should since I am in my first year of college, but we love each other so much I am really thinking about it.
Questions:
-Should I move to Italy and stay with him ?
-Do long distance relationships ever work ?
Other Details:
-I am 18, he is 19
-I see him every summer and sometimes during the holidays
-I talk to him all the time on the phone and computer
-I am Italian/German/French(My mother is from France, My Grandmother is from Italy, and my Dad is German/Italian from America)
Fallen For A Girl With A Long Distance Boyfriend, What Do I Do?
I am 19. She is 18. She is from NY. She is in Florida for college. We met through ROTC and a 4 day long field training excersize. I have fallen head over heels for her. She likes me too, I know this for a fact (she has said it strait up). Heck, the first thing she did when we got back from the excersize was to call up one of her friends and tell her about me. There is one giant problem though, her boyfriend back in NY.
She has been with the guy for almost 3 years now. With the long distance hurting them their relationship is at best rocky. I have spent many nights lifting her spirits after he has torn them down. I have also lost count of the amount of times she has said she was this close to breaking up with him right then and there. I don’t ask too many questions but I think that says enough. Oh, another quick fact, the rockiness also started because about 6 months ago, he did cheat on her.
From what I can gather, her problem is one that I had myself, he is all she knows and she doesn’t know how not to be with him. She has told me that she just doesn’t want to give up when things get tough, which is understandable.
Ever since we have met we have been constantly around each other. We do workouts together every chance we get. We end up spending at minimum 3 nights a week together at my place or her dorm (normally her dorm because she has no car). Several times I have even crashed in her bed, or her in mine. And yes, she likes to cuddle.
We are both nocturnal so we can never sleep. We have spent many nights just walking around campus for hours on end talking about anything and everything. Most of the time not going in until 2 in the morning.
For a long time sexual tension built. We would just lay there talking, doing the random flirty things such as poking and tickling, for hours on end. Both of us being giant teases we would often end up with one on top of the other lips gently brushing against each other, both daring the other to just cross that line.
Just before spring break she kept giving me random tity twisters, so I told her if she does it one more time, i would actually kiss her and cross that line (this is after about 2 months of us playing the games from above). She then proceeds to look me strait in the eye and reach out and grab both of my nipples and twist. Of course, I lived up to my threat and we spent the evening roaming around campus finding every single make out spot we could find. Of course, at the end of the night she said that it was a one time thing and she could not do that again… fast forward to the next night, and it happens again… same for the rest of the week until she went back up to NY.
Now, she did do the right thing and tell her boyfriend exactly what happened right when she saw him. I know he was pissed but that is about all I know of what happened. Obviously not that pissed because they are still dating.
Ever since she has been back the tension is obviously still there, she obviously still likes me. I definitely still cant get over her. We have forced ourselves to behave though. Once or twice we have ended napping in the same bed, and cuddle slightly. Once or twice we have ended up in that lip brushing teasing thing. But for the most part we just behave like really close friends. Still hang out all the time, still go on those long walks and just lay there staring at the stars. Just enjoying each others company.
For a while I have been trying to get over her. Move on. But I cant. Last night she was begging me to come to a club with her so we can dance, because “[she] cant be hooking up with [me] so dancing is innocent.”
She knows how I feel. We both understand that we feel this way for each other, but yet…. What do I do? Is there anything I can do?
Please don’t just pass this off saying she is a cheater, bla bla. I understand that part, I know the extra circumstances, and trust me, if she was a cheater like that I wouldn’t be posting this question.
What Do I Do If Girl Broke Up W/ Me So It Would Be Easier To Leave For College?
my girlfriend broke up with me, i wont graduate high school until next year, she says its so she wouldnt be under the stress of a breakup when she started college. she wont do long distance relationships because she has before and she says its “too hard”. she graduates this year…. i dont know what to do. shes my world. please help me.
How Do I Convince The Girl I Like That Long Distance Relationships Can Work?
She lives in my hometown, and we’ve been dating over the holidays. I really like her, and she says she likes me. The problem is I go to college 3 hours away, and she has had long distance relationships before. I’d be able to see her during all the holidays including all of summer break, and probably one weekend a month. She said that she needs someone that can come over on a whim and hold her while she cries, and that I can’t do that while I’m away at school. Is there anything I can say or do to convince her that it could work out?
I Need To Break My Long Distance Relationship, Can Any Girl Give Me Advice On How To Do It?
I have been dating my girlfriend for about 14 months, I was with her for two months before I went to college and we decided to make it a long distance relationship. She lives in a different country than I do and I can only see her once or twice a year.
Our relationship survived the first year but this first week of the second year has been very hard for me. I feel very deprived of human contact and Im constantly afraid I might do something to hurt her. I feel Im not mature enough to stay faithful to her and I prefer to break up with her then cheat on her. I feel awful that I cant continue the relationship.
My question is this. My semester just started and I already wanna break up with her but I decided the more mature thing to do was to break it up in person when I see her in 4 months. But that means that all this time when i talk to her online I have to lie to her when she asks if i think we will be together forever, i have to lie when i say nothing is on my mind and when she asks if im doubting or anything i have to lie lie lie!
Is it better to break up over the internet or lie to her for four more months and then abruptly break up with her when i arrive?
Can My Ex Really Not Handle A Long Distance Relationship And Still Love Me But Have A New Girl For Sex Pleasur
My ex and I broke up when I left for college because the long-distance was too hard for him to handle. We remained very close friends and I still am madly in love with him. I recently found out he had a new girlfriend and it broke my heart. I told him I can’t talk to him anymore and he broke down saying that he loves me and wants to be with me…its just so hard because I am so far away. He confessed his passion and love for me…saying that he wants to be with me but we are just both living separate lives right now. I don’t know what to do because I still love him so much and strongly feel like we will get back together someday. Does he realy still love me and is using this new girl for sex? He calls me all the time to check in and see how I am..tells me he misses me ad everything. I am so confused and emotionally torn! Any advice?
If A Girl Glances Long Distance In Class, Does She Like Me?
In college, there was a girl who glanced at me like 10 times in class. This occured after we had our first conversation.
I Get Jealous When My Long Distance Boyfriend Talks About Girl Friends, Am I Unreasonable?
We’re in a long distance relationship and only get to see each other for 2 weeks a year. Lately he keeps talking about girls at college and stff and it’s makin me jealous and annoyed towards him. Am I unreasonable?
How To I Keep My Long Distance Girl Happy?
Ok I am 15 and live in Virginia. My father is in the military, so I am moving quite frequently, and long distance relationships are a common occurrence. Being so young, being able to travel is out of the question. She is 18 and lives in Texas. She is going to community college, for the first year, then is possibly going to a school in close vicinity to me. Anyone have any tips on keeping my baby happy and interested? as I know women can be fickle.
Thank you very much, I love her, so I want to make this work.
