College Plans, Could You Give Me Your Opinions?
My boyfriend and I are both going to college after this summer, and we’ll have been dating for a year by then. We aren’t perfect, and we fight often, but we can never stay mad at each other which makes me believe that we are a strong couple and we love each other. He is deciding on whether to go out of state of go to the same college that I am attending. We’ve talked about it multiple times but we always end up where we started. We have talked about long distance and he is unsure about this. I’m a little unsure too because I was dumped a year or so over a web cam after dating my ex for a year and a couple of months, I’m pretty sure that my ex was my first love so it was pretty heartbreaking. I just want to hear other people’s experiences and opinions on long distance and going to the same college as your high school sweetheart.
Thanks.
Help On Long Distance Relationship??????????????
I’ve recently been involved in a long distance relationship with my high school sweetheart, i’m away at college. It’s been hard for us, we love each other but not being able to see each other continuously is driving us both crazy! He recently expressed his feelings to me about wanting me to move back home for school. Which isn’t possible, because i only have 1 more year left. To make a long story short, we’re not in a “formal” relationship now. But, when I come home for winter break we’ll spend time together, and probably be intimate. I was just wondering if this is healthy for us, or if we should make a clean break??
Long Time Boyfriend Going Away To College, Some Thoughts?
Recently my boyfriend of two years and high school sweetheart told me
that he is going to UTI in PA after we graduate, its a all guys
automotive trade school about a hour away from where we live now.
I am going to a community college for two years then was planning on transferring.
Me and my boyfriend do have a
good relationship, of course we have little nit pick fights every onece
in a while but overall we do enjoy out time together. We on average see
each other everyday at some point.
I though am uncomfortable with any type of long distance thing. I am
not one to fully trust any boyfriend. But my boyfriend wants me to
possibly move in with him at the apartment he will be living in. I
personally know I cannot afford going to a college out of state, but I
might apply to a college or two anyway to see what possibilities happen.
Even if I don’t move to PA he keeps telling me he wants to be with me
and how he will be down every weekend and so on.
I just need some other opinions on this, since this is litterally making
me have such headaches from the confusion of what to do. Any words of
advice or thoughts?
Why Do People Engage In Long-distance Relationships? (military Excluded)?
(military excluded, because i know that deployment is out of your control)
I never understood the appeal of participating in a long-distance relationship.
If you and your high school sweetheart go off to different schools at graduation…it’s time to let that person go. Have a good college experience! Why constantly experience the anguish of being tied to someone, possibly hundred of miles away?
Or maybe you met someone over the internet.
Or your bf/gf moved, got transferred, whatever.
Or the myriad of other circumstances
How can you have a romantic relationship with someone who lives so far away, where you maybe only see each other every few months?
In my opinion, you’re cutting yourself off from other potential partners by clinging to that distant person.
How Well Do Long Distance Relationships Work? Especially With College Kids.?
It really depends on the two of you and how comitted you are to the relationship and to each other. It also depends on how realistic your relationship is right now. I am married to my high school sweetheart after 8 years of a long distance relationship. Just like every relationship it depends on you and how badly you want your relationship to work out.
