College Plans, Could You Give Me Your Opinions?
My boyfriend and I are both going to college after this summer, and we’ll have been dating for a year by then. We aren’t perfect, and we fight often, but we can never stay mad at each other which makes me believe that we are a strong couple and we love each other. He is deciding on whether to go out of state of go to the same college that I am attending. We’ve talked about it multiple times but we always end up where we started. We have talked about long distance and he is unsure about this. I’m a little unsure too because I was dumped a year or so over a web cam after dating my ex for a year and a couple of months, I’m pretty sure that my ex was my first love so it was pretty heartbreaking. I just want to hear other people’s experiences and opinions on long distance and going to the same college as your high school sweetheart.
Thanks.
Still Confused On My Boyfriend Going To College?
ok so I really want to stay together with my boyfriend I’m so scared to lose him going to college and I know that I can trust him but I’m worried he will drop me bc it’s to hard because its a long distance from my house to his college so should I wait for him or break up?
No Girlfriend All Through Highschool Until College. Please Help..?
Hello, I have a slight problem. I’m 16 years old and just graduated tenth grade. My parents sent me to an all boys military school this past year and while i was there, I noticed that everyone i know and liked is about 900 miles away from me. This means that if I were to have a relationship it would be extremely long distance and difficult to handle. And I’m being sent there for my junior and senior year too.
So….would it be a bad idea to go all of my life without a girlfriend until college or later? Or should I go for the long shot and try to manage a relationship in these harsh conditions?
Thanks.
Boyfriend…sex…basketball..…
My boyfriend and I have been dating for 10 months now and I love him dearly. Well I tell every one that I love them but its deeper than that I feel for others. Anyway, he is younger than me by 10 months (such a coincidence) and he has had sex before. I am 17 turning 18 and I am still a virgin. He wants to have sex but I don’t feel like I am ready. Here is the catch 22, I want to but I was raped when I was younger so every time we reach the undressing stage I start having flashbacks and can’t go on any more.
2) We have been dating so long I guess I am starting to feel like it is time for a change of scenery and test the waters. I want to be with him but with me going off to college and him still being a sophomore in high school, the long distance thing just wont work for me.
3) All I really want to do is play basketball but I don’t know how to be all about ball and maintain a relationship and 4.00 GPA. Something has got to give.
What do I do??? My sanity is my happiness. Please help!
Can Long-distance Relationships Really Work? : FRANCESCO TOTTI …
I personally don’t think so mainly because when you’re in a relationship you need to spend time and be able to see each other almost on the regular. Long distance relationships aren’t for everybody.
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Can Long-distance Relationships Really Work? : FRANCESCO TOTTI …
I personally don’t think so mainly because when you’re in a relationship you need to spend time and be able to see each other almost on the regular. Long distance relationships aren’t for everybody.
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A Kinda Long Distance, Close Relationship.? : FRANCESCO TOTTI …
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Long Distance Problem?
my family is living n another country..my bf don`t want us to get separated again because of long distance so he got me preg! [it was confirmed that i was preg when we got separated again by distance]..we both want this baby and we are so happy to have this!
now the problem is,my parents don`t want me to go back to the country where my bf is if were not still married..but my bf promised to his parents that we will get married after his college..and 2-3 years more college! [i think my bf`s parents don`t want us to get married unless my bf has not finished school yet]..now,my bf wants me to go back home but my parents dont agree with it! im confused so any advice what to do? we cant like even see eachother unless we are married! eventhough he`s the father..
Long Distance Problem? : FRANCESCO TOTTI, FOREX ACCOUNT, SPORT CAR …
my family is living n another country..my bf don`t want us to get separated again because of long distance so he got me preg! ..we both want this baby and we are …
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Fallen For A Girl With A Long Distance Boyfriend, What Do I Do?
I am 19. She is 18. She is from NY. She is in Florida for college. We met through ROTC and a 4 day long field training excersize. I have fallen head over heels for her. She likes me too, I know this for a fact (she has said it strait up). Heck, the first thing she did when we got back from the excersize was to call up one of her friends and tell her about me. There is one giant problem though, her boyfriend back in NY.
She has been with the guy for almost 3 years now. With the long distance hurting them their relationship is at best rocky. I have spent many nights lifting her spirits after he has torn them down. I have also lost count of the amount of times she has said she was this close to breaking up with him right then and there. I don’t ask too many questions but I think that says enough. Oh, another quick fact, the rockiness also started because about 6 months ago, he did cheat on her.
From what I can gather, her problem is one that I had myself, he is all she knows and she doesn’t know how not to be with him. She has told me that she just doesn’t want to give up when things get tough, which is understandable.
Ever since we have met we have been constantly around each other. We do workouts together every chance we get. We end up spending at minimum 3 nights a week together at my place or her dorm (normally her dorm because she has no car). Several times I have even crashed in her bed, or her in mine. And yes, she likes to cuddle.
We are both nocturnal so we can never sleep. We have spent many nights just walking around campus for hours on end talking about anything and everything. Most of the time not going in until 2 in the morning.
For a long time sexual tension built. We would just lay there talking, doing the random flirty things such as poking and tickling, for hours on end. Both of us being giant teases we would often end up with one on top of the other lips gently brushing against each other, both daring the other to just cross that line.
Just before spring break she kept giving me random tity twisters, so I told her if she does it one more time, i would actually kiss her and cross that line (this is after about 2 months of us playing the games from above). She then proceeds to look me strait in the eye and reach out and grab both of my nipples and twist. Of course, I lived up to my threat and we spent the evening roaming around campus finding every single make out spot we could find. Of course, at the end of the night she said that it was a one time thing and she could not do that again… fast forward to the next night, and it happens again… same for the rest of the week until she went back up to NY.
Now, she did do the right thing and tell her boyfriend exactly what happened right when she saw him. I know he was pissed but that is about all I know of what happened. Obviously not that pissed because they are still dating.
Ever since she has been back the tension is obviously still there, she obviously still likes me. I definitely still cant get over her. We have forced ourselves to behave though. Once or twice we have ended napping in the same bed, and cuddle slightly. Once or twice we have ended up in that lip brushing teasing thing. But for the most part we just behave like really close friends. Still hang out all the time, still go on those long walks and just lay there staring at the stars. Just enjoying each others company.
For a while I have been trying to get over her. Move on. But I cant. Last night she was begging me to come to a club with her so we can dance, because “[she] cant be hooking up with [me] so dancing is innocent.”
She knows how I feel. We both understand that we feel this way for each other, but yet…. What do I do? Is there anything I can do?
Please don’t just pass this off saying she is a cheater, bla bla. I understand that part, I know the extra circumstances, and trust me, if she was a cheater like that I wouldn’t be posting this question.
