Why Do People Engage In Long-distance Relationships? (military Excluded)?
(military excluded, because i know that deployment is out of your control)
I never understood the appeal of participating in a long-distance relationship.
If you and your high school sweetheart go off to different schools at graduation…it’s time to let that person go. Have a good college experience! Why constantly experience the anguish of being tied to someone, possibly hundred of miles away?
Or maybe you met someone over the internet.
Or your bf/gf moved, got transferred, whatever.
Or the myriad of other circumstances
How can you have a romantic relationship with someone who lives so far away, where you maybe only see each other every few months?
In my opinion, you’re cutting yourself off from other potential partners by clinging to that distant person.
Am I Too Young To Be Thinking About A Future With My Long-distance Girlfriend?
I’m 13, and she’s 15. We’re deeply in love, and we want to be together when we grow up. We are talking about colleges, expenses, where we want to live, etc.
How To Break Up A Long-distance Relationship?
I’ve been seeing this guy for a month now. actually I’ve only seen him four times,since it’s a long distance relationship. but he keeps calling me two or three times a day, constantly asking me where I was, what I was doing, and so on. and then when I tell him about my day, we just spend five minutes in ackward and boring silence. he keeps saying how much he misses me, and keeps sending me kisses and it’s been really annoying. he’s very possesive and jelaous, and I feel that this kind of relationship is suffocating me. I cannot understand how can he be so attached after such a short while. I’m not used to this kind of relationship. I’m afraid that when we see each other again he’ll want to be with me 24/7, and I hate not having enoguh time for myself, friends, college, etc. I don’t know how to break up with him because there is no way I could see him until October…..I think I should do it in person, don’t you think it would be insensitive to break up with someone over the phone…?
What Are Some Ways To Spend Quality Time Together During A Long-distance Relationship?
That’s the vague version, here’s the specific version -
My girlfriend’s off at her first semester of college and we’re a couple thousand miles apart. She’s had a tough time adjusting and is pretty lonely a good part of the time, and next weekend her roommate (who lives near the college) is going home, so she’s going to be extra lonely.
I’m trying to think of ways to keep her company despite being so far away – first of all, by being on the phone with her the entire time. But beyond that, I’m trying to think of other stuff we can be doing “together”.
So far, I figure we can watch a movie together (both rent the same movie, start it at the same time), and play a game together (online, any number of the Yahoo! games out there).
Does anyone have any other ideas?
Got A Question About A Long-distance Relationship?
Ok so here is the deal: There is a girl and Im crazy about her. I have known her for 7 years and we are pretty close. Im 97.75% sure she feels the same way. But the thing is: She goes to college in Wisconsin and I am in the Army. I really would like to be her boyfriend but Im not sure whether a long distance relationship would be a good idea. What do you guys suggest. Im 20 and she is 19.
Length Of Long-distance Relationships?
How long have you been in your long-distance relationship and how long has the relationship in general lasted? I’ve been in my relationship for over 3 years, half of which has been long distance.
I go to college 4 hours away from where she lives, and later on this year she hopes to go to college in NYC where I live when I’m not in school. She used to live in the city and we both went to high school together
Can A Long-distance Relationship Really Work?
I just moved back home to NC from VA and a couple of months ago me and my girlfriend broke up because we thought it would be best since we would be living 5 hours drive apart. However she wants to get back together.
I plan on moving to Texas next year. I would love for her to go with me, but they don’t have a school there where she can transfer her college credits from VA to TX. (there isn’t a school in NC either) So starting over or quitting school is not an option for her, she’s got 2 more years to go.
I love her and i’ve never really thought that a long-distance relationship could work. Can it work?? Any suggestions?? What would you do??
How Do I Keep My Long-distance Relationship Alive?
I have been in this relationship for over two months now; he lives in Canada and I live in the USA, so we are about 500 miles apart. He’s coming down to visit me for about 5 days in July. Unfortunately we’re very limited during the majority of the year; we will be seeing one another for about 1 week every two months, and then I will have mid-May through late August living with him. This will be the case for the next 4 years (since he lives and works in Canada and I am going to college in NYC).
What sort of little things can I do to keep things going? We email often, and talk on the phone every day. We send e-cards sometimes. What other little things can we do to keep the relationship strong and just keep it from feeling strained?
Lack Of Communication And Long-distance Relationship?
Before you say to leave the relationship, we are in a meaningful relationship and we were friends in high school and dated there so we aren’t strangers. We have been together for a very long time. He is in college across the country and I am going to college in my state. His parents are no longer funding college for him so he probably is going to be working near constantly to go through college. We won’t be talking much, because I need a job too. We are worried about our relationship. He gets off on breaks, comes home to where his family lives, which is close by, but he does not want to be around them since his mother is not being very kind to him (like cutting off communication, no money for college, saying mean things like he doesn’t have a family anymore) I am really worried about him too such a long distance, can’t let him stay at my house or anything (I live with my parents) We are worried about what will happen to our relationship. We talk via AIM everyday and when I still had my cellphone, we talked to each other just before bed and during breaks between our classes. But this next semester it might change. I realize communication is essential for any relationship, whether it is face-to-face or via the internet. Is there anything I can do to still keep the communication flowing?
How To Stimulate A Long-distance Relationship?
So I’ve been at college for about a month now, and my girlfriend from high school who i very much love is about 8 hours away, only allowing somewhere around one visit with each other in between school breaks. While I remain upbeat and positive, she seems to be losing all the things that had made her so fiery when I knew her. I really want to continue this relationship, and aside from letters/care packages/phone convos, what can I do to spark her love with me back up? Thanks for any answers!
