Long Distance Relationship Dilemma…please Help?

February 23, 2010 by  
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So my boyfriend and I are long distance because of school. He’s a senior, I’m a junior in college and we’re at universities 3 hours apart from each other. We’ve expressed how much in love we are and how we plan to marry each other one day. The latest bump in the road comes from the fact that he coaches a “semi-pro” football team that has practices and games every sunday. So here’s the deal, we planned on switching off weekends visiting each other. However, he already promised this guy, who doesn’t have a mode of transportation to get to the dome where they play, that he’d drive him. This guy had helped out my bf with rides last football season. So in a nutshell, we thought that the weekends would be 50/50, but it looks like I’m going to have to go see him every weekend. I did this last year, drove long distance to see a bf every weekend and I felt like an idiot once we broke up. I dont want him to feel he has to give up his team but I dont want to do all the work. What should I do?

Christmas Gift For Boyfriend In Long-distance Relationship?

February 17, 2010 by  
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Help! I want to make up something special for my boyfriend’s Christmas – I’m in college, he’s in high school. Maybe something to incorporate the distance? He’s really smart, a runner, involved in tons of activities…..

Long Distance Relationship…help.?

February 14, 2010 by  
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Ok, i have been dating this girl for 4 months now. I love her dearly and she means so much to me, there is just one problem. She is a year older than me and she is going off to college in DC. I live in Miami and have one more year before i go to college. The longest we’re going to be away from each other is 2 months, but both of us are terrified of what is going to happen because neither of us wants to leave the other. Can someone help me?

Long Distance Relationship Help?

February 12, 2010 by  
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My boyfriend left for college but we still decided to have a long distance relationship. From a guys perspective what should I do to keep our relationship strong so that we do not drift away?

Boyfriend Cheating, Long Distance Relationship…help?

February 11, 2010 by  
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My bf and I have a long distance relationship. In 2 months, upon my college graduation, I am moving to his city to work and move in with him. 3 weeks ago, he met a woman, 28, gorgeous, successful and established. (I’m 22, he’s 24) She went out with him one night, and the next day told me he was interested in her. I told him, I’m moving there in 2 months, and I don’t think seeing her is good for us. He agreed and said he wouldn’t see her anymore.
Upon visiting him, I find that they kissed, spent the night together, and see each other every night. He has never cheated before. He tells me that he loves me but that he is just intrigued by her. I told him that he needed to choose and he became angry and annoyed when I cried over the situation.
Is this just nervousness about me moving in with him? Just a fling that a lot of guys experience before commitment? I want to put my foot down, but love him, have the condo in our names, and don’t want to give up.
What should I do?

I Need Advice On Long Distance Relationships.

February 7, 2010 by  
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I met a girl on facebook who i have become really attached to. (And yes i have confirmed that it is a she and that she is real and not some weirdo trying to hook up with random people or whatever people worry about. She is the real deal) Any way, i live in georgia and she is in california. I plan on going to college in caltech, but right now im a junior in highschool and so is she. We have both openly admitted that we like each other but we don’t call it a “relationship” because we don’t see each other. We both talk every day and we talk like we are boyfriend and girlfriend but i don’t want to look like an idiot in front of her if i said would you date me long distance. We have so much in common and I really feel strongly about her. What should i say and how can i keep our relationship up till i can actually see her face to face? I have never been in a long distance relationship. Please help with REAL answers and not something like “haha she a dude” or something stupid like that cause thats just a waste of time and like i already said, I already know she is who she says she is.

Hey Folks-long Distance Relationship Question-please Help!?

January 31, 2010 by  
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ok, i know i’m being stupid..but i live in Ireland and my boyfriend is german.we’re in a long distance rel until i finish college (1 1/2 years). The thing is, we talk every night, but because i miss him i’ll often text im to say hello. He rarely answers and never texts first. It’s silly, but we can’t often surprise each other because of the distance and the romance is dying.the only thing i can do is let him know i’m thinking of him with a text. it actually hurts that he can’t be bothered. he says there’s no need because he’ll be talking to me later on the phone and he’s too busy for my texts. am i wrong for being a little annoyed about this? thanks in advance.

Doing Most Of The Work In The Long Distance Relationship. Help?

January 29, 2010 by  
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Bf is in college and I’m at a CC in our home state. He’s at a top school in NYC so he’s super busy and doesn’t have time for me at all. We both want the relationship to keep going, so I send notes and cards an mail him little gifts when I can, but I never get anything back. I know he’s busy but I feel like I’m doing most of the work in keeping the relationship going. What should I do?

My Boyfriend Is Leaving For College In August. I Have Never Been In A Long Distance Relationship. Help.?

January 6, 2010 by  
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We have been dating for over a year now and have known each other for over 2 years. His college is 8 hours away and I still have 2 years of high school to finish. I know I may seem young, but I dont want to loose him. We love each other very much and want to stay together for as long as possible. Any ideas or advice on how we can get through this and stay together?

College Long Distance Relationship. Help!?

December 23, 2009 by  
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My Fiance and I have been dating for two years. However this year he is going on an exchange program *only a state and 2 hrs away* in order to get a scholarship. Its only year but I am worried on how to make it work through this time. Please if you have any tips to make this work, they will surely be appreciated.

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