I Like Her But She’s In A Long Distance Relationship, Advice?

March 1, 2010 by  
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We are both in our first year of college, in different programs. We’re both 18, We’ve been hanging out alot lately, drinking and going to parties with friends and such. after the first/second week hanging out with her she added me on facebook and it says shes got a bf. before we started hanging out, her facebook status says stuff like “i miss my boyfriend” and stuff. It hasnt since. The strange thing is, she’s never mentioned, neither have her friends that she has a BF.
I know that long distance relationships dont work/wont work through the 3 years of college.. I feel bad and i don’t want to put her in a situation she has to deal with daily temptations.. I can tell shes really into me. If i make a move, and shes not interested in that way, theres a chance ill lose this friendship.
Should I just mask my feelings and remain friends until this relationship dissolves? Any advice or people that have had the same kind of problem?

Shes Not Single (long Distance Relationship), I Like Her, Advice?

February 26, 2010 by  
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We are both in our first year of college, in different programs. We’re both 18, We’ve been hanging out alot lately, drinking and going to parties with friends and such.
Around the first/second week hanging out with her she added me on facebook and it says shes got a bf. The strange thing is, she’s never mentioned she had a BF or even mentioned him at all, and we’ve been hanging out for almost 3 months now.. Although once in a while it says stuff like “<3 Miss him" or somthing to do with him, on her facebook status, like once a month.
I know that long distance relationships dont work/wont work through the 3 years of college.. I want to be more then friends. She seems like shes really enjoying my company, i think she likes me, just the signals shes giving me, are not signs that taken girls give. We've even gone on a few dates just me and her, is that really normal thing a taken girl should be doing? We talk on msn like EVERYDAY, should i try to flirt with her over msn?
What should i do around her to let her know that I like her more then a friend? Any advice or views please tell me.

Define Long Distance. Shes Scared Of A Ld Relationship.?

February 17, 2010 by  
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Ok, first off, please define what type of drive distance you think qualifies as a long distance relationship. (hours, not miles please)
This girl and I have been friends for a long time, and are infact best of friends now. We tell eachother everything, and are open about the fact that we both like eachother, but we dont talk about that fact often. She gets all quiet and says long distance relationships dont work.
Then, yesterday over aim she vented about everything going wrong at the moment and then went on to say that she would absoloutley love to date me, but she doesnt thing long distance ever works out. She has MAJOR trust issues, even with me to an extent. She said that if we ever ended up at the same college, she would date me in a heartbeat, but, again, she isnt sure if I could be faitlful, and she said she doesnt know if she could. She also stated that she doesnt want to risk our friendship. ***more details in a second***

She’s Leaving For College In January But I Don’t Want A Long Distance Relationship Wat Do I Do?

January 7, 2010 by  
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My girlfriend is leaving in January for school. We live in DC now she’s only going to Baltimore but its still about two hours away. She will be staying on campus. I don’t want her to go but she wants to so I can’t hold her back but I don’t wanna do long distance. Everytime she brings it up I just get quiet. I don’t think she will be faithful to me while she’s away at school. Should I just end it now or wait. I’m about to buy a house and get myself together. I will also be going to school but I will be attending a local school. I’m ready to start a family but she’s pursing her education. What do I do? should I leave or should I stay?

She’s Leaving For College In January But I Don’t Want A Long Distance Relationship Wat Do I Do?

January 7, 2010 by  
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My girlfriend is leaving in January for school. We live in DC now she’s only going to Baltimore but its still about two hours away. She will be staying on campus. I don’t want her to go but she wants to so I can’t hold her back but I don’t wanna do long distance. Everytime she brings it up I just get quiet. I don’t think she will be faithful to me while she’s away at school. Should I just end it now or wait. I’m about to buy a house and get myself together. I will also be going to school but I will be attending a local school. I’m ready to start a family but she’s pursing her education. What do I do? should I leave or should I stay?