Should I End This Long Distance Relationship Before I Move Closer To Him?

First off, don’t judge me cuz some of the info is kinda personal.
I’ve been with this guy for almost 11 months, and for the first 8, everything was great (After I went to college things have been harder). And it’s a long distance relationship, but I planned on moving maybe like 900 miles west to a college closer to him. And if I do it’s gonna be in 3-4 weeks, when the semester ends.
But lately I just dunno about him. He’s been treating me as just some body instead of somebody, and I don’t want that at all. Like, he masterbates and stuff, and lately, as soon as he finishes he’s all like, “I’m going to bed. I’ll talk to u tomorrow. love you.”
Like today he was texting me and was like, “hey I need some help with my english paper tonight..can u help me?,” so I said yes. When I went to newspaper (I work for the university newspaper) I made sure I didn’t choose events that were tonight just so I could help him and talk to him. But when he got home he pretty much talked to me, got off, then went to bed. His plan is to wake up at 3 am (my 5 am) and do his homework. I don’t really get why he chooses to be awake when I’m sleeping and chooses to sleep when I’m awake.
The last time we talked he did the same thing. Like what the hell. I don’t talk to him for him to get off and leave. And it’s making me feel like that’s all he wants me for. I’m not gonna give someone that lame my virginity, right?
He just doesn’t seem like he used to be. I dumped him a month ago because I thought he changed from the sweet person he used to be, and I let him back into my life.
But honestly, he isn’t even really that sweet. When we first met he wrote so many poems…just because. He would always surprise me. Now he just writes poems if I dump him (I’ve dumped him once).
Deep down I know what I should do, but I don’t wanna make a wrong decision. At one point I really did love him, and it was because of everything he did. Now, I just find myself aggravated so much more often with him. He’s a douche really.
Any suggestions?
Thanks!